问题是...我二十岁了

1.

转身要比眼泪快

这是必须

过了18岁

你必须学会承担难过

你必须知道难过它会过

要经常对自己說：

我也可以很勇敢！

不要、千万不要轻易在别人面前掉眼泪

别人看多了你的眼泪

就会觉得你的眼泪如此廉价



2.

你以前或许干过许多荒唐的事

可是请你不要觉得那有多见不得人

请你不要觉得那是负担

过了18岁

这是你生命中一个新的开始



3.

谁对你好

你就对谁好

人际交往永远是礼尚往来的

双向法则

没有人有义务对你好

过了18岁

擦亮眼睛

谁对你好

记得对他好



4.

明确自己的目标

为此奋斗

此时不搏何时搏?

不是屁话

过了18岁

你要出国?

找工作?

还是继续学习?……

过了18岁

你离踏入社会已不远

你是否已做好准备?



5.

答应自己的事情就要做到

该对自己狠的时候就要狠

切忌优柔寡断、藕断丝连

对自己心软成不了大事

过了18岁

要学会面对现实

不能再整日沉浸于白日梦中



6.

如果你正在恋爱

请不要毫无保留地付出

你全盘托出了

拿什么留给你以后的伴侶?

要学会自己洒脱一点

别把所有的都投资在所谓的“潜力股”身上

无论什么时候

看清楚你自己手中留着什么底牌



7.

做人当方则方、当圆则圆

过了18岁

别人不会再把你当小孩子

你的错误已不会再有人包容

对不喜欢的人和事学会面带笑容

不喜欢躲的远一点



8.

感谢所有伤害过你的人

然后在18岁生日的那天

对他们挥挥手说声：

“我不再恨你们了”

仇恨留在18岁以前的青春

你长大了……

你要正视伤害



9.

别玩什么非主流

你又不是肥猪刘

还不如学着化化妆

不是烟熏浓

是大方得体的淡妆

一个大企业的面试官曾对我说过

一个化淡妆的女生

企业会优先考虑

为什么?

因为你连自己的容貌都不着急

你会着急什么?

世界上没有丑女人

只有懒女人



10.

减肥

说说就好

到你真的减到跟竹竿似的时候

你会发现低血压低血糖头晕目眩一系列疾病同时伴随你

说不好还有胃癌

过了18岁

你要知道

你以后的路还有很长

健康的身体是你走下去的保证



11.

对挑拨离间的人

不要揭发他

等他演完一出出好戏

拼命演、拼命圆

然后告诉他

其实你什么都知道

接着笑笑离开



12.

是的

你已经达到法定婚龄了

可是你并不用着急着嫁人

或许你正在热恋

你们山盟海誓说要一辈子

可是你才刚过18岁

你不知道一辈子到底有多长

日子是过出来的

不是想出来的

结婚不是两个人的事情

是两个家庭的事情

老一辈讲的门当户对

并不是毫无道理的封建思想

结婚

你应该抱着一辈子只有一次的信念

所以挑选的时候丝毫不得马虎

恋爱就把它当成恋爱

结婚

慢慢来



13.

轰轰烈烈的爱情

留给1字头的年龄

你已经18岁了

别再做那些会被别人当做笑话的傻事

什么夜不归宿、当街吵架、以死相逼、一哭二闹三上吊

那些疯狂的事情

那些年少轻狂

我们经历过就够了

过了18岁了

学会淡定从容



14.

伴侶

宁缺毋滥

不要因为寂寞而恋爱

不要因为跟风而恋爱

过了18岁了

学会对自己的人生负责



15.

自己喜欢的东西

不要奢望别人买

18岁

不管你以前是否玩过暧昧

你已经过了暧昧的年龄

女人要独立

经济独立是基礎



16.

如果一个男人对你说他配不上你

相信他

一个自己说配不上你的男人

一辈子也不会配得上你

珍惜与能力无关、与钱无关！



最后

随时给自己准备一个微笑

告诉自己

“我可以！”

Stupid

I went for a movie with my housemates, 7 of us.

we chose to go today as monday is a movie day always!

only 6 dollars if u would like to watch a movie by 4pm

haha

DONT CONVERT! it's the cheapest here

we watched....TRUE GRIT

i dunno whether it has been shown in Malaysia

this is how their movie 'ticket' haha

shud be named as 'paper'

n i found myself a stupid throughout the whole movie

it got no SUBTITLE!!!

not even english subtitle!

i had a real hard time in catching what they were saying

n to understand the whole story

haha

luckily,

after the movie,

everyone said they couldnt get the movie too!!!

haha

a stupid family we r =D

n i'm looking forward to watch this movie

KISS AGAIN

heeeehehe

i'm gonna start my class tmr..

isshh =(

hate studying la

but thats y i'm here in melb

so...

accept it!

stay tuned!

怕安静

我又帮自己订了场电影
结果走在广场找你 背影人来了又去
我好怀念迟到 有人会发脾气

手机又收讯 简讯不是你
打开了更让人失望到底
你走就走吧
干嘛留下每天没看完的韩剧

我想我真的怕安静 少了你吵我不开心
回家第一个开机 掩盖所有的安静
说不定我能够撑过去

我想我真的怕安静 连洗澡都要戴耳机
打电动声东击西 一停我又怕想起
连我很爱我的人我没珍惜



你爱的歌手又出了专辑
一样好听 可是特别痛心
歌词每一句 根本帮不到 还硬劝我要放弃

把闹钟 设不停 或许我 会清醒
我想等下去 可惜爱不能靠毅力
要是我挽回你 你一定更伤心
爱一个人不一定要永远在一起

真的怕安静 不想去 也硬要出去
逛闹区到ktv 点你必点的歌曲
怎么合唱的人不是你

原来我这么怕安静 是怕再也听不到你
在厨房大声唱歌 在沙发应该忘记
让我这余下的我有多爱你

你已不在这里

Ori ori Mangali

Today is the 3rd day of Orientation

It was the day to sign up for clubs n societies

i did something vy vy vy sui lui bao >_____<

Could u guess???

Yea...i signed up for HK club instead of Msia Club!!

I know i know i know!!!!

But i just prefer knowing more HK ppl maaaa!! hehe

and i'm so interested in watching wong tze wah's standup comedy!

i missed once in malaysia and i hope i can grab the chance here!
Jen and me signed up for an activity called FOOD ADVENTURE

we tot it was an activity which seniors would bring us to several famous restaurants and so on

Unexpectedly, we gained lot today!!!

we had free food in 4 restaurants!!! FREE!!!!!!

This was the 1st restaurant -Chili Padi

it served us Malaysian Food

wow, the rice was so tasty yeaaaa...

You see you see!! the cake was so so cute hehe

with a horse on it =D cute cute <3

Wine lounge

The 2nd one was a cafe

we dipped these biscuits into diff types of chocolate! it was really nice!!!!

and we got 50% off voucher afterwards =D

The 3ed one was a pizza restaurant

one of the staffs there kept on frightening us using scary mask la..spider laaa and so on =___=

he really impressed us alot haha

the pizza here are as thin as domino's one

yummy!

i prefer this, with ham toppings

and later on

we were served a speciality

Chocolate Pizza

wow, vy special n it was nice, indeed!

Lastly, we ended our Adventure with ice cream =D

however, i think BR is much nicer =P

yeee, as i said

i had signed up for Mahjong CLub haha!!!

and dance club hehe

i hope i will enjoy it in the future!

I dunno what title i should name for this post..

i just wanna express my unhappiness..


I'm sad..

really :(

O-Week

Orientation started today

it was so boring when the host brought us around for the campus tour =____=

I went home n wanted to start blogging
and then Jen gave me a call

asked me to join Amazing Race
haha

no harm joining since i'll be vy free this week

7-11 was giving out free gifts!!!

slurpee!!!!

and i got many free gifts n free food from the orientation thingy haha

vy ugloy er this pic..

FOOD!!!

and this free sticker!

this is the best orientation i ever had cuz i got many things =DD

dun say i'm auntie, it's normal!!!! paris hilton said that!!! hhaaah

I'm a Beach Girl!

Hey hey you you!

i'm a beach girl =D



Friedi asked me to join her for St Kilda

it's a combination of beach n a port



n we went there by tram

i cant describe how beautiful the sky can be..

let's pictures speak thousand words for me

i like this pic hehe

palm tress? hehe

ya, it is located along the streets

nestle hehe

wow, breezeeeee

n the sun came out

wow, i love this!!

n here i am =DD

usually when we watch hk drama, there must be a nice restaurant at the port, and guys wil propose to their gf there haha

indeed, there was a restaurant at St Kilda Port

but no one was proposing haha

but i saw a old couple were having a stroll sweetly with their pet dog hehe

their dog

so cute

yea, cute but i wont touch

YAP XIAO YAN and FRANCISKA KIM, i knew you would!

the restaurant

its nice

oh no, the sky is really nice

i love this shot

my legs look so long in this pic haha

US!

tel u something

the wind was blowing so strong

til the sand was blown up n hurt our legs!!

and it was so strong til it blew me down!!

i fell down!!!

can u imagine how strong it was??

p/s": i din know that i can be blewn down by wind hoho

i really couldnt stop taking photos for the sky!!

i wanna go this place!!!

Luna Park

it sounds so nice

but friedi has phobia of roller coaster >___<

lim xiu hui, i wanna come!

n we went to church

unfortunately the church was closed

the church here are all really nice!!!

i couldnt find one like this in malaysia

she was trying to get the door open haha

n we went to Mc D

it qas my 1st Mc D meal here

i ordered Caesar Salad wrap

n i got to choose what type of chicken i want

either crispy (mean fried) or seared( mean those smooth smooth type)

n of'c i choose seared chicken hehe



































Mc Value lunch here is cheaper compared to ours

only 4++

BUT they do not provide bottomless drinks here

so still

Malaysia is better haha

this is my lunch! hehe

and b4 we went home, i found the entrance of LUNA PARK
















i wanna come laaaaaaa=(

this is a famous theatre in melb

n on our way home, we saw a guy was performing in front of the visitor central

he performed for FREE!!

He made fun of all the pedestrian haha










See?

a big group of ppl were listening to his jokes




























n suddenly, i heard a long but nice bell ring

there was a marriage!!

so sweet

i wanna have my wedding in such a nice place toooo

b4 i end, i wanna share my happiness!

i got my hoola hoop here!