一言惊醒梦中人

曾经 听过这么一句话
“世上虽然有很多棵树，可是很难找到你这么喜欢的一棵树。为什么要一直放弃然后一直寻觅，而不培养好现有的那一棵呢？”

忘记了 是从哪听来 看来的

这句话
让我深思了好一段时间

是我放弃得太快吗？

如果当时…我不选择放弃，
而选择谅解，
我会比现在更快乐吗？

其实我们真的很开心过不是吗？

是我一开始就选择错误吗？

是我错吗？

…

看回自己冒出的问题，
我觉得…自己好傻哦

没关系
只有傻过
才会知道现在的自己是多么的正常

对
无可否认的
如果彼此之间的问题
是需要谅解
需要迁就
需要包容
就能解决的话

我们就别为了这些所谓的“问题”而放弃那棵树

那只是成长的过程
人与人之间
总需要有些障碍 有点磨炼

彼此才会更合拍 更愉快

我真的有检讨过
是不是我的问题…
和好友聊了聊
终于知道问题在哪里了

“是不是你自己没信心，根本人家还没打过来，你自己就认输退出？”

“是不是你不能谅解男生都会有偶尔的小出轨，动不动就分手？”

“为什么你就不能迁就下他，就不必单身了啊…”

这三个客观的问题
把真正的我给带回来了

我并不是怕输
因为我从来没把爱情当比赛
我相信
是我的终究会是我的

而是我根本不需要他的选择来肯定我自己

打从他追我 他不就已经选择好了吗？
他以为他还可以再一次选择我之前
我已经决定帮他选择了别人

对，这就是我
我也有我大女人的一面
可是只出现在当他觉得别人比我更小鸟依人的时候

为什么我要谅解小出轨？
别说有在一起或暧昧什么的
只要心意一旦有动摇
他根本就不值得我去珍惜

两个人在一起 要学会的是把握
而不是拥有了我 再学会怎么去把别的妞

他想要占据我的心
那也请他的心里只有我占据
我很怕热 最讨厌和人挤
她们想挤进来
就由得她们挤
我去找一个只容纳我一个人的空间

最讨厌不专一的人了 这就是我

为什么我要为了不单身而迁就容忍？
大家在一起之前 原本就是单身的 有很难过吗？

我什么都可以忍

伤害我的事情 我干嘛要忍？

这就是我 对我不好 就休想我再对你好

对 我回来了
我真的回来了

虽然当我很辛苦时
我都希望她在我身边鼓励我安慰我

她说的那句话
我还记得
“不是你选错
只是他变了
不要怀疑你自己的决定
我支持你”

让我懂得珍惜自己的一句话
我永远都会记得的…

一言惊醒梦中人

Just Pics

my chin was hurt =(

my face disappeared haha

was bored during revision

haha

Octoberending

went to champion's wedding

argh..it was like...

so early!

i was called to wake up early at 9am!

see my dark circles...were like smooky eyes haha

but they were sweet hehe



de wedding made me so desperate to get married!

BUT

XD



the buffet was of vegetarian food

but the food were totally out of my expectation

they served pasta

sushi

dessert

oh de Fruit Tarts were...............DELICIOUS!!!!!!!!!!!!!

but thet din refill afterwardss==

aiksss



These are de pics with bee wei

i thought she would appear in dress one!

aiks

but her new hairstyle is nice

me n my aiya bf =D

me n carmen

our 1st picture??

haha

except for graduation ones laa

haha!

Tat day me n my sis popped out a question

how to differentiate animation & cartoon?

if let's say animation is more logic

Naruto isn't logic AT ALL!!

if let's say cartoon's characters are drawn not tat detailed

but Aladdin is detail enough

i love JASMINE! hehe

dark dark princess =)

a funny answer from someone

ANIMATION is from Japan

CARTOON is from US

just tat they dun12 claim it de same haha

BUT

crayon sin is cartoon ar

my chibimaruko also cartoon ar

AIKS

CONCLUSION is

our question came out with no answer

experts know it

I came to realise that i'm 21 according to chinese calendar!

n my birthday wil fall on 31st Dec 2010!!!

Let's countdown together haha

My friend asked me

what was the greatest surprise for my birthday??

hmm

i said

no one can really surprise me by popping out suddenly cuz everyone has a fixed date for my celebration

BUT

presents can really surprise me if i like it =)

n so far

i think the most unforgetable one was the birthday cake

from yan n ling

i was really touched !! T________T

homemade one leh! hehe

Went tesco with sis

oh no

there was a shop

selling various kind of taiwan n japan stuff

for slimming la for skin care la for make up la

etc etc

haha

even lingerie!

summore de prices are affordable!

wowwwwwwww

Mark&Spencer biscuits are really delicious

i love them!!

my sis bought one blue colour packaging

dunno what digestive biscuit

vy yummy!!!

i went steamboat

haha

de same old shop

de staff there shouted 'hey your idol is here'

i tot they were pointing my sis

but me!?

i wonder what laaa

never seen Steamboat Queen ke?

haha

3 more days to my finals

yea

wil be quite busy in these coming 2 weeks

=)

stay tuned n i'll be back

wish me luck ya =) hehe

After so LONG

Finally
i get to blog
I MISS BLOGGING
but i was kinda busy recently =(

BUT
i seize time for fun too
hehe

finally suzanne finished her trial
n we hung out
to GreenBox

this was the 2nd time i went greenbox

1st time was....form 4?
haha

aiks! i'm older =(

awwwwww.........see my eyes
were so swollen
=(
n the dark circles
were so big n black haha
long time never taken so 'act-cute' poses

Greenbox was quite affordable

n it's easy to select songs there!

n free flow n tidbit buffet are even more attracting!! haha

Afterwards,

we went to Tbowl

as she wished to

haha

my 2nd time visiting here too

Honeydew + ice cream?

my main purpose was to use this voucher

n our bill was exactly 30.05 to use this voucher! haha

her seafood porridge

she said nice

my seafood tomyam

thumbs UP!!

i was busy snapping her

cuz she eats vy slow

>________<

haha

she was like 'again??? yer'

HEHE

Dont laaa

Finally, 5 song d

haha

eeeeeeeee

c how dirty she was??

I love this! she looks nice here

Out of 3 pics, i prefer this =)

N it was enjoyable

**********************************************************

Met up with Fiona n Nicole finally!

they finished their trials too

haha

I pin my hair in this way

=) nice?

me n fiona

me n nicole

a super belated bday celebration for fiona

hehe

btw, the slices are nice

from bread story de


went to BarBQ plaza afterwards

the fav of us!

we have quite many common interest

n our most unique one is our common features --2 DIMPLES!

i stayed up n studies =(

for the one who goes penang,

safe journey n welcome back XD

haha

i watched The Child's Eye

NOT NICE!

=.=

totally out of expectation

N

3D movies arent nice

summore so expensive!